Aruba Procurve ESXi ~ My brain is broken

Hi, I have been trying to get this working for what seems like ages ~ i'm missing something ~

We are expanding out infrastructure (actually we're building a smaller faster less dense cluster for a 24x7 colo). Anyway we trunk (LAG ~ Aggregate ~ Bond ~ Link ~ whatever you terminology) our ESXi hosts to the switches, that way they observe VLANS and we can assign VM's to individual VLANS

So we got some Arubas and here I am struggling

Can you help a cranky admin out?

##### Procurve 5412zl release #K.16.01.0013 ######## trunk A1,B1 trk11 trunk trunk A2,B2 trk12 trunk trunk A3,B3 trk13 trunk logging facility local3 timesync sntp sntp unicast sntp server priority 1 10.0.0.250 no telnet-server time daylight-time-rule continental-us-and-canada time timezone -300 ip route 0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 10.0.0.254 ip routing interface A1 name "VM01 eth" no power-over-ethernet exit interface A2 name "VM02 eth" no power-over-ethernet exit interface A3 name "VM03 eth" no power-over-ethernet exit interface B1 name "VM01 eth" speed-duplex auto-1000 exit interface B2 name "VM02 eth" no power-over-ethernet exit interface B3 name "VM03 eth" no power-over-ethernet exit vlan 1 name "DEFAULT_VLAN" no untagged A8-A14,A16,B8-B14,B21,C8-C14,C21,D6-D7,D15,D21 untagged A17-A18,A20-A22,B17,B20,B22-B24,C16-C18,C20,C22-C23,D3,D8-D14,D16-D18,D20,D22-D24,E1-E24,Trk1,Trk6,Trk8-Trk9,Trk11-Trk17 tagged A15,B15-B16,C15 ip address 10.0.0.1 255.255.252.0 exit vlan 101 name "VOIP_VLAN" untagged A15-A16,B15-B16,D15 tagged Trk1,Trk6,Trk8,Trk11-Trk17 ip address 10.10.0.1 255.255.252.0 exit spanning-tree Trk11 admin-edge-port spanning-tree Trk11 priority 4 spanning-tree Trk12 admin-edge-port spanning-tree Trk12 priority 4 spanning-tree Trk13 admin-edge-port spanning-tree Trk13 priority 4 no spanning-tree bpdu-throttle no autorun no dhcp config-file-update no dhcp image-file-update password manager ############## ESXi Standard Virtual Switch ~ 6.5 ########### Load balancing Route based on IP hash Network failure detection Link status only Notify switches Yes Failback Yes ############## Aruba CX 8320 ~ 10.5 THIS DOESN'T WORK the host is unavailable until we pull the interfaces out of the LAG ########### clock timezone us/eastern ntp server 10.0.0.250 ntp server enable ntp vrf mgmt ! ! ! ssh server vrf mgmt vlan 1 vlan 20 name VMotion_VLAN vlan 101 name VOIP_VLAN interface mgmt no shutdown ip static 10.0.0.194/22 default-gateway 10.0.0.1 nameserver 10.0.0.249 10.0.0.250 interface lag 110 no shutdown no routing vlan trunk native 1 vlan trunk allowed 1,101 interface 1/1/10 no shutdown lag 110 interface 1/1/20 no shutdown lag 110 ############## Aruba CX 8320 ~ 10.5 THIS WORKS ~ but vmware can't "see' the hash??########### clock timezone us/eastern ntp server 10.0.0.250 ntp server enable ntp vrf mgmt ! ! ! ssh server vrf mgmt vlan 1 vlan 20 name VMotion_VLAN vlan 101 name VOIP_VLAN interface mgmt no shutdown ip static 10.0.0.194/22 default-gateway 10.0.0.1 nameserver 10.0.0.249 10.0.0.250 interface lag 110 no shutdown no routing vlan trunk native 1 vlan trunk allowed 1,101 interface 1/1/10 no shutdown no routing vlan trunk native 1 vlan trunk allowed 1, 101 interface 1/1/20 no shutdown no routing vlan trunk native 1 vlan trunk allowed 1,101 ! ! https-server vrf mgmt 

Thanks again