Is it possible to be able to determine a route my internet takes to get to a server?

Hello everyone,

I'm a little new to this subreddit but I'm interested in traceing the routes that my packets take to go to a specific server, say an AWS server.

As far as I can tell that ISPs have control over the routes that packets need to take to get to server.

Is it possible to bypass this and figure out your own route to a server?

Let me know if I'm not making sense.