Seeking recommendation on router / AP hardware

Howdy y'all. This hardware is for my home, which is also my office. Less than 20 nodes connecting to the device(s).

I'm tired of consumer pos routers / ap that die after a few years. I've installed dd-wrt and tomato on various routers to expand their functionality in the past.

Now, I'm looking for something that is a bit less consumer grade, and closer to pro-sumer or soho. I want to focus on quality of build and security. I'm currently leaning towards Mikrotik and/or Ubiquiti.

Any thoughts? What do you use and what are the advantages and disadvantages?

Thanks!