Single ASA redundant connections to a Active / Standby ASA Pair

So we have an active / standby pair of ASA firewalls. and they each have a connection to a single ASA which is setup as a redundant connection. On the Active ASA it sees this connection as normal (waiting) (under failover status) on the standby it sees this connection as failed (waiting).

The reason I think this is the case is that the single ASA will be looking for the standby ip interface but the active/standby pair is only ever sending the active ip interface on both links. Is there anyway we can configure either side of these connections to resolve our failover scenario?